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Part 2 | 10 Pieces of Relationship Advice for Building Secure Attachment (Thanks, Stan Tatkin)
Who does not love to be protected? Can you remember a time when someone stuck up for you in public?


10 Pieces of Relationship Advice for Building Secure Attachment (Thanks, Stan Tatkin)
Romantic relationships can be hard. Like, really f’ing hard. And it can be so nice to have help given to us in the form of a succinct list.


Addiction as Protection + Protection as Addiction
Psychology Responds to Physiology In my last blog post, I spoke about the way we use addiction as a means of dealing with chronic nervous...


Why SOMATIC psychotherapy...
If you will indulge me…Take your right hand and begin massaging your left index finger. Start out gently and slowly use more force so that y


At Home on Earth: Lessons on Being Enough
How much of how we live our lives revolves around a deep feeling of not being enough? Enough, just as we are, to be worthy of money, of resp


Shadow Work: Finding Wholeness in Relationship
This isn’t a cliché post about overcoming a toxic relationship and moving on.


Trauma and the Unlived Life - Grieving What We've Lost
My tween years were filled with adventures, made invaluable by my close-knit and friendly circle. I remember spending a whole summer at an o


The Child within Remembers: An Inner Child Healing Poem
After a recent session focusing on inner child healing, a client of mine wrote this beautiful poem. I received permission from her to share


Hypervigilance vs Healthy Vigilance: The Trauma of Marginalization
You’re a woman in her early thirties, dressed nicely, and on the bus coming home from work. It’s about 7pm, and dusk is arriving. You take y


Developmental Trauma vs PTSD: Getting a Sense
When I was born, I was given up for adoption. It would take me nearly thirty years to understand how much this has affected me. Speaking...


Addiction + the Faux Window of Tolerance
In a recent conversation, my mom asked me why some people become addicted to drugs while others do not. I love when conversations go in a ch


What's this "Client-Centered" all about?
During client-centered therapy, the therapist is absolutely careful not to send the client down a path which is not of their making.
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